A boutonniere is a floral decoration that gives an additional elegant finish to a tuxedo. Pinned at the left side lapel of the groom’s tuxedo, it traditionally includes at least one bloom from the bridal bouquet. One sweet thing about boutonniere is that it symbolizes the groom’s love and fidelity. However, the groom is not the only one who wears a boutonniere, his groomsmen do, too

Boutonnieres for groomsmen are quite similar to the one worn by the groom. The only difference is that the ones worn by the groomsmen are smaller. If the groom and the groomsmen are wearing matching tuxedos, you can distinguish who’s who by looking at the boutonnieres. A boutonniere for a groomsman is generally less elaborate, less lavish in appearance and has fewer blooms.

You can save money on boutonnieres for groomsmen by making them yourself. All you need are small or medium sized flower, ferns or baby’s breath (you can use both), a pair of scissors, and florist tape. Just cut the stem of the flowers, then arrange them beautifully with the fern or baby’s breath. Use a pin to attach it to the lapel of the tuxedo.

Remember that boutonnieres for groomsmen should also complement the bridesmaid bouquets. The best way to do this is to choose a flower that has the same color as the bridesmaid gowns.

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Your wedding celebration is a success thanks in no small part to your bridesmaids and groomsmen. They’ve put in time and effort to assist you and your spouse and do their respective tasks. Show your deep appreciation for their support by giving them special presents. Even better, give them personalized gifts that they will cherish as keepsakes in remembrance of your special day.

Leather journals are excellent gifts for bridesmaids and groomsmen. To personalize the journals, have their names engraved on the cover in gold ink. You can have this gift made to order from craft shops or from an online store. To complete the set, be sure to add a fountain pen and ink.

Or you can give each bridesmaids a monogrammed clutch bag personalized with their initials. They would find it useful and special at the same time.

As for the groomsmen, why not a monogrammed gym bags? Have each bag made in different colors to give your groomsmen a bit of individuality.

Alternatively, you may choose to give the groomsmen or the bridesmaids non-identical gifts. Since you and your spouse know each of them very well, take into consideration their interests and hobbies. Is their a sporty groomsman in the wedding party? Why not give him a jersey of his favorite basketball team bearing his name on the back? How about that bridesmaid who loves to ride? You might want to give her a charm bracelet with a horse trinket.

Ultimately, you can make your presents special by making it relevant to the recipient’s personality.

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You are getting married in a few months. You have started planning for your wedding with your fiancée. And then, the subject of choosing your groomsmen comes up. This should be easy, what with all your male friends, relatives, basketball buddies, and officemates lining up to be picked. But then, the occasion dictates that you only need to fill in a few slots. Probably because you are not planning a large wedding after all (ideally, there should be one groomsman for every 50 guests). Or for the simple fact that you cannot just accommodate everybody. Who do you pick then?

In general, how do you choose your groomsmen?

One important aspect to consider in choosing your groomsmen is reliability. Groomsmen are expected to be present during rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner. They are also assigned to escort the bride’s attendants and help the guests to their seats during the ceremony. Overall, groomsmen help you to keep things in order. Choose your closest friends and relatives you think are responsible enough to do their tasks.

Keep in mind as well that groomsmen are responsible for their own attire, and if they are traveling from another place, their own transportation and accommodation. Make sure that they know the financial considerations in accepting the honor to be your groomsmen.

If, in the final tally, you get to choose only a few of your male friends and relatives, you may ask those who are not included in the wedding party to assist in getting the ceremony organized. They may help in getting the guests to their seats or act as some sort of information centers for directions in and around the venue.

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