Sexually violated or lucky?
When I was in my early teens and my family was living in Europe – back in the 1960’s I became friends with a local girl whose parents owned a resort/spa and she invited me to use the services as her guest. Well to make a very long story short I was massaged by a couple of women who provided me with a lot more than a back rub. I always enjoyed my visits there and they seemed to have fun too.
Nowadays those women would be considered terribly criminal for engaging in sexual activity with a boy barely into his teens. Personally, I never felt violated, in fact felt extremely lucky to have such great teachers introduce me to the world of lovemaking. more than that they demonstrated that humans were a whole person including sexuality and they simply celebrated my youthful sexual response to touch as normal and healthy.
So my question is are there others out there – male or female who found early and perhaps socially unacceptable sexual activity to be a positive experience in their life?
Second, is it just guys that feel this way? Is there a double standard in that a young lady in similar situations is violated and young man is simply lucky?
How has it impacted me? I am acutelly aware of pleasuring my partner. I have had a successful 20+ year marriage. I do think Americans are too hung up on sex and far too afrraid of nudity, but then again I grew up in Europe where I saw my females friends nude on the beach so there really wasn’t much mystery about them and less sex happening between teens back then than I think we have here these days.
Contessa,
They were much older – I would guess lmid twenties to mid thirties. I was 13 that year like the daughter of the owner I was friends with.
I am sure the women there serviced other customers as part of thier service or as an extra service. I suspect that with usual clients some cash was exchanged.
I know, well don’t know, but I am as certain as i can be that my female friend recieved the same type of services because the first day she took me there the sounds from the room she went to indicated she was being pleasured by the owmen taking care of her as well, although my understanding of same sex female to female sex was not developed at the time so I really didn’t think about what this meant until much later..
As far as your guess i think it was accurate. I was a pet of the staff – a novelty – a young american boy and they all seemed delighted to teach me nor was the pelasure one way. They taught me how to pleasure their bodies as well. I learned a lot!
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